hahah. I was actually thinking of that moment @ Pride when the people were confused/orrified by our t-shirts! "How can there be girls kissing? They're both femmes!" And we were like, "They're supposed to be us, jackwad! Do either of us look butch to you???"

I know what you mean about parts of you being male. I was so hung up on not being a tomboy (like feminists are "supposed" to be), I never even discovered/identified my bits of gender dysphoria until I was in college. Which is crazy! Because I have so much of it!

Yeah, I can't stand the way the "alternative" lifestyles want to erase all traces of difference and either ape or live in constant reaction to the mainstream. It really makes me sick.

You, on the other hand, make me smile. Love you!