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kali ([personal profile] fictional) wrote2009-01-19 01:55 pm
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if you believe in good energy

...please spare some. Daniel's cousin, Brian -- younger, just about my age -- is in the hospital, after having suffered two strokes and a heart attack. He is waiting for open heart surgery right now; chances he will survive this look... well, you can imagine.

Daniel is, naturally, freaking out a bit. Something of an understatement. I don't even know what to say.

Things are a little rough round here.

If you have any good thoughts to spare. You know.

Life seems so fragile right now.

[identity profile] rm.livejournal.com 2009-01-19 06:59 pm (UTC)(link)
Jesus christ. How do these things even happen?

The good news, such as it is, is that if he does survive, he's entirely young enough to make a full recovery (says the person who has had to learn waaaaaay too much about strokes lately).

[identity profile] kalichan.livejournal.com 2009-01-19 07:00 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah. I don't even know what to say.

[identity profile] magnetgirl.livejournal.com 2009-01-19 07:15 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm REALLY starting to think there are fucking demons behind this shit.

[identity profile] rm.livejournal.com 2009-01-19 07:32 pm (UTC)(link)
I really hate when sentences like this sound rational.

[identity profile] magnetgirl.livejournal.com 2009-01-19 07:39 pm (UTC)(link)
I mean, really, right? What else could explain 4 of my close friends having autoimmune disorders, my friends and their loved ones getting the big C in their 20's and 30's and the insane amount of strokes happening to people we know in the last 6 months? I just-it's like I hear a horrible story EVERY DAY these days-and not in the news...in my circle of friends/extended circle! I remember when things like this would happen once or twice a year...I am just fucking puzzled and disarmed...!

[identity profile] rm.livejournal.com 2009-01-19 07:40 pm (UTC)(link)
I keep attributing it to getting older, but you guys are all way younger than me and this shit was not going on in my social circle when I was your age.

[identity profile] kalichan.livejournal.com 2009-01-19 07:48 pm (UTC)(link)
It is extremely fucking weird.

I too, have been trying to attribute it to growing older, but...

it just seems. Wrong. I dunno.

I am feeling very weird these days.

[identity profile] magnetgirl.livejournal.com 2009-01-19 07:49 pm (UTC)(link)
I second that and say we call Sam and Dean!

[identity profile] kalichan.livejournal.com 2009-01-19 07:55 pm (UTC)(link)
Well, this is Dean's [old] number: 1-866-907-3235. Don't know if it still works, though.

[identity profile] magnetgirl.livejournal.com 2009-01-19 08:02 pm (UTC)(link)
"hey you've called club (something) from WB.com, featuring bands like...blah blah blah...get on the list"

:(

[identity profile] kalichan.livejournal.com 2009-01-19 08:05 pm (UTC)(link)
How much do I love that you tried it? *g*

[identity profile] kalichan.livejournal.com 2009-01-19 07:56 pm (UTC)(link)
http://www.mania.com/supernatural-number_article_49798.html

[identity profile] troygirl68.livejournal.com 2009-01-19 07:00 pm (UTC)(link)
So, so, so sorry to hear this. I'm thinking of you both; and sincerely hoping for the best.
*Hugs*
Samantha

[identity profile] kalichan.livejournal.com 2009-01-19 07:06 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you very much. It is greatly appreciated. *hugs*

Somehow it's always hard when it happens to people who are so young, I think. I feel worst for D's aunt, I think. I mean, watching something like this happen to your kid's got to be the worst thing ever, bar none.

[identity profile] troygirl68.livejournal.com 2009-01-19 07:17 pm (UTC)(link)
Believe me; now I have children of my own, I understand that completely. Let's hope he's strong and will pull through without any long term ill effects. Clearly he's surrounded by a lot of love, and that's got to be helping him somewhere inside himself.

[identity profile] kalichan.livejournal.com 2009-01-19 07:25 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah, I really believe all that stuff. Love and positive energy and good thoughts. Hence LJ post.

[identity profile] coyotegoth.livejournal.com 2009-01-19 07:10 pm (UTC)(link)
Fuck, I'm sorry. Wishing all concerned the best.

[identity profile] kalichan.livejournal.com 2009-01-19 07:23 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you.

[identity profile] magnetgirl.livejournal.com 2009-01-19 07:14 pm (UTC)(link)
For fucks sake! 2 strokes? Heart attack? OUR AGE???

Fuck. How did we end up in this fucked generation health-wise? I mean nothing makes any goddamn sense anymore!

Poor D!!! Is he still at work? Should I call or email??

[identity profile] kalichan.livejournal.com 2009-01-19 07:19 pm (UTC)(link)
He couldn't get into work today -- car/snow disaster. And then this. I'm sure he'd appreciate either.

[identity profile] magnetgirl.livejournal.com 2009-01-19 07:39 pm (UTC)(link)
Done and done. Fuck on a STICK, man. How are you, lovey?

[identity profile] framefolly.livejournal.com 2009-01-19 08:42 pm (UTC)(link)
*sending you positive vibes for Brian*

[identity profile] kalichan.livejournal.com 2009-01-21 05:19 am (UTC)(link)
Thank you so much. Seems like it's working. He made it through surgery, and is still breathing, so that's very good. Still critical, but looking better!

[identity profile] marchek.livejournal.com 2009-01-19 09:11 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh god. My thoughts are with you and Daniel's family.

I just got news that my friend's cousin has stage four cancer in four major organs.

Demons really are the only explanation that makes sense right now.

[identity profile] kalichan.livejournal.com 2009-01-21 05:20 am (UTC)(link)
I know! It's crazy. Daniel says to say thank you; it's much appreciated. He made it through surgery, and is still breathing, so things are cautiously optimistic. I hope your friend and her family are holding up okay.

[identity profile] lolliejean.livejournal.com 2009-01-19 09:16 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm so sorry to read this. Sending out the super strength xenajean mojo. xoxox

[identity profile] kalichan.livejournal.com 2009-01-21 05:21 am (UTC)(link)
Thank you for sparing some mojo -- seems like it's working! He made it through surgery, and is still breathing, so we're cautiously optimistic. Never underestimate the power of people thinking good thoughts. xoxox

[identity profile] faris-nallaneen.livejournal.com 2009-01-19 10:23 pm (UTC)(link)
love you. call whenever. you know you & d both have my heart. let me know if you need my brain as well (with regard to wrangling frustrating bureaucracy -- airlines, hospitals, etc...).

[identity profile] kalichan.livejournal.com 2009-01-21 05:22 am (UTC)(link)
love you! Things looking up, he made it through surgery, so yay! Not out of the woods, but...

*hugs & kisses*

[identity profile] kel-reiley.livejournal.com 2009-01-19 11:57 pm (UTC)(link)
*sends out good thoughts for you and yours*

[identity profile] kalichan.livejournal.com 2009-01-21 05:22 am (UTC)(link)
Thank you so much! Seems like it's working. He made it through surgery, and is still breathing, so cautious optimism over here. And hey, it's a good luck day, isn't it? *g*

[identity profile] sykii.livejournal.com 2009-01-20 12:06 am (UTC)(link)
Love you guys so much. Let me know if we can do anything.

[identity profile] kalichan.livejournal.com 2009-01-21 05:23 am (UTC)(link)
Love you! He made it through surgery, and is still breathing, so things looking up. Not out of the woods, but everyone hanging in. lovelove.

[identity profile] haplily.livejournal.com 2009-01-20 01:39 am (UTC)(link)
I really hope for all the best. If either of you need anything from me, I'm here for both of you.

[identity profile] kalichan.livejournal.com 2009-01-21 05:24 am (UTC)(link)
Thanks, hon. I passed on your message to D. and he was really grateful. He made it through surgery, and is still breathing, so things cautiously optimistic. xoxo.

[identity profile] austenheroin.livejournal.com 2009-01-20 02:45 am (UTC)(link)
Holding you and yours in the light.

[identity profile] kalichan.livejournal.com 2009-01-21 05:24 am (UTC)(link)
Thank you! Heard about Chris, and am thinking good thoughts for all of you. *hugs*

[identity profile] askeladden.livejournal.com 2009-01-20 03:00 am (UTC)(link)
That's horrible. I'll be thinking of you guys and hoping for the best.

[identity profile] kalichan.livejournal.com 2009-01-21 05:25 am (UTC)(link)
Thank you! Things looking up! Not out of the woods, but cautious optimism at making it through surgery. =D

[identity profile] darthhellokitty.livejournal.com 2009-01-20 05:54 am (UTC)(link)
Lots of good thoughts and good energy to you and Daniel and Brian.

[identity profile] kalichan.livejournal.com 2009-01-21 05:26 am (UTC)(link)
Thank you so much! I & Daniel really appreciate it.
He made it through surgery, and is still breathing, so I think the LJ mojo is working! *g*

[identity profile] bodlon.livejournal.com 2009-01-20 12:25 pm (UTC)(link)
That's horrible.

*thinking good thoughts*

[identity profile] kalichan.livejournal.com 2009-01-21 05:26 am (UTC)(link)
LJ Mojo's mighty. He made it through surgery, and is still breathing, so cautious optimism is our watchword. Thanks for your good thoughts!
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[personal profile] contrarywise 2009-01-20 04:52 pm (UTC)(link)
I hope for the best for Brian, and will be keeping him, Daniel and his loved ones in my thoughts.

[identity profile] kalichan.livejournal.com 2009-01-21 05:28 am (UTC)(link)
Thank you, especially for sparing some with your injury etc. Glad you're back in Internet Land. LJ Mojo seems to be working? He made it through surgery, and is still breathing, so yay! Daniel wants me to say thanks also; he's very touched.
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[personal profile] contrarywise 2009-01-21 06:03 pm (UTC)(link)
Yay indeed! I'm glad to hear it. I'm happy to lend support where and when I can. And thanks for your good wishes sent my way.